thearchimage ([info]thearchimage) wrote,
@ 2006-02-17 17:06:00
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Current mood: thoughtful
Current music:Berryz Koubou - Nanchuu Koi wo Yatteru YOU KNOW?

A few thoughts about LJ
Berryz Koubou - Nanchuu Koi wa Yatteru YOU KNOW

LiveJournal is a weird beast. Allow me to explain what I mean by that and thereby waste several minutes of your life that, let's face it, you would have wasted just as unproductively elsewhere.

Locked posts have never struck me as well-implemented. I just don't understand them. I'm not the paranoid type that constantly wonders whether someone I know will find my journal and find out I wrote nasty stuff about them. I insult most of my friends to their faces without a shred of regret, and if I don't care whether I hurt their feelings why the hell should I worry about people I don't even like? That being said, sometimes I feel the need to write something but am unable to figure how to word it properly and fear someone may take it the wrong way. I don't care if I make enemies with my blunt nature, but I don't need people thinking I'm suicidal or an axe murderer or something. At times like those, I may consider friends-locking the post. Unfortunately, most of the people I would prefer to hide the post from are ALREADY on my friends list. So much for THAT idea. Private posts may fit the bill, but the concept of putting something on an online journal that only you will see is completely counter to the whole "attention whore" aspect of the LiveJournal experience. (And yes, I count myself among the attention whores. Why else would I make all my posts public? Seriously now, let's not lie to ourselves. Just say it: "I like receiving attention from other people". There's nothing wrong with it, and you'll feel a lot better.)

So normally, I just let those posts wither and die on their own. Two days later I don't remember what I wanted to write about, so the dilemma solves itself quite nicely. Still, I can't help but feel LiveJournal would benefit greatly from a "selective reading" type of post where only friends you designate are able to read the post. I'm sure lots of people would relish the opportunity to bitch about their friends behind their backs, and it would keep people from worrying unnecessarily about me. Everybody wins. Well, except for the people being bitched about I guess. And for the people on my friends' list who would rather not have the "honor" of being deemed worthy of listening to more of my babbles.

Side note: if you're one of the latter, why are you still reading this? Go play more video games. Actually, even if you like reading my rants video games wouldn't be a bad idea. As some random dude in Wild Arms 4 said, "The world would be a much more peaceful place if everyone just played more video games." Preach it brother.

Now, where was I?

Moving on to the next LJ related topic: friends-only journals. Now, these things completely baffle me. So you won't let people read your livejournal unless they a) put you on their friend's list, b) email you to tell you they are on your friends list, and c) wait for you to get off your lazy ass and add them to your friend's list? There's no way I would consider my brain-diarrhea to be a sufficient reward for all that hoop-jumping, and I doubt anyone else's is worth it either. I often won't go to such lengths for a journal that posts j-pop, and I loves me my j-pop. Granted I am an exceedingly lazy person but my point still stands: if you want to meet new people through LJ, making them endure such an asinine procedure just to see a single one of your posts is not going to convince them that you're cool.

I guess that's all the LJ-themed ranting I have for now.




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[info]llgames
2006-02-17 02:12 pm UTC (link)
Actually LJ has a feature that allows you to place your friends in security groups and you can lock a given post to only a specific group. If you go to the top of the page and highlight Journal and then click on the elipsis next to Friends beneath it, then you will find a page that lets you set that up.

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[info]thearchimage
2006-02-17 08:01 pm UTC (link)
... Huh. I did not know that.

Alright, let's see... first thing, create a security group with everyone but llgames... :p

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Explanations
[info]oblivious4life
2006-02-17 03:10 pm UTC (link)
One of my friends has a psycho mother who actually reads her lj posts, so she makes most public, but makes otehrs private.

Also, I heard that the administrators at Trinity were planning to look through these resources as well, since they asked somebody for names. People arte fucking crazy.

Anyway, there are valid reasons for friends only posts. I personally did it, for no reason, actually, and now it's just set that way and I have no reason to take it off. Whatev.

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Re: Explanations
[info]kirinomiaka
2006-02-22 07:56 am UTC (link)
BG already does, and one of my brother's friends got into quite a bit of a mess over it. Ended up changing his journal name and locking more posts.

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[info]berniezoid
2006-02-19 05:44 pm UTC (link)
There are many uses to LJ ... And not everyone wants to meet new people through LJ.

Also, just note that the "custom" friends settings have a limit of 30 groups I believe. I'm not sure what happens to the entries that were under a custom name if you delete that group to make room for another one.

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[info]berniezoid
2006-02-19 05:48 pm UTC (link)
Crap ... I losy half that comment apparently.

*There are many uses to LJ ... the obvious being just that, a journal, a place to talk about whatever you want whenever you want to, a place to vent even or tell the tale of a funny situation that happened during the day. My friends and I have also used it as an invitation device over the summer to help plan a get together/hang out/movies whatever. And sometimes it's just a great thing to use if you don't happen to have a paper-version to-do-list (or ... well can't find it) Stuff like that.

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[info]berniezoid
2006-02-19 05:49 pm UTC (link)
*lost

Wow I must be tired

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